| Location | Hastings |
| Age | 2 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 04/01/2008 |
| Date of Death | 06/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,034 since 30/03/2008 |
| Creator |
The name of my gawjus daughter is Brooke Amilia Denman. She was born on the 4/1/2008 and died on the
6/1/2008. she was 1 day and 23 hours old. She passed away due to lack of blood and oxygen to the
brain dueing labour. She was the best thing that had ever happened to me and im gald i got to see
her and hold for for her finally goodbye.
It all started off thursday morning (3.1.08) at 10am wen i got up i started getting pains in my
lower stomach like period cramps every 20 mins. as the day went on the pains started getting
stronger and by 6pm they were starting to come every 5-7mins. as andes mum is a student midwife she
was keepin a close eye on me which was a great help. By 1am (4.1.08) the contactions where coming
every 5 mins and the pain was so bad i had to ring the hospital and they told me to come in straight
away. When i got to the hospital they got me in the laubour ward in room 2. ande rang my best mate
and my mum to come in and they were in the room with us for most of the time. i was given the gas
and air striaght away which is a great thing i was so high off it at first lol by 4am i had the
midwife check me and i was 4cm dilated and i was getting tired. after that i had the pathidine which
really helped with the gas and air they work great together lol by 9am i was 7cm dilated. just
before 12pm i had the erge to push so my midwife check and said that i was fully dilated but my
waters hadnt broken so i got her to break them and a load of greenish water came out which ment that
brooke had poo'ed inside me which ment she was stressed. for the next 2 hours i was pushing with all
my might wen her head started crowning i let ande look as he was really excitied about meeting his
little girl. and 50 mins later her head was out and with 1 final push she was out into the world.
She was taken straight off me and had to have her airways cleaned and things, she wasnt moving and
we started to get scared after about 10 doctors had rushed into the room to see her. after 40 mins
of breathing for her they took her round into the special care unit i didnt even get to hold her.
after 2 hours of resting i finally got up and dressed and was just about to get into the shower wen
ande and his mum came in with a few doctors, by the look on andes face he wasnt happy. the doctors
told us that brooke was very ill and needed extra care. so we decided to let her go to the medway
hosptial in gillingham. we set off before brooke did and we waited for her in the waiting room. as
soon as she had arrived we went in to see her. she was covered in tubes it was horrible seeing her
like that. in the morning the doctors came in and told us straight that brooke was very ill and if
she made it she would be brain damaged. over the day they gave her everything they could but nothing
was working. that night they came back in a told us that brooke most proparly wasnt going to make
it. in the morning me and ande went in to see her and her blood pressure was very low. our mums were
on there way to see us and brooke wen at 2.30pm on the 6.1.08 brooke sadly died she just suddenly
went white then the monitor started peeping... she was gone. wen we looked round, standing there was
my mum, ands mum, my best mate sarah and tony and his auntie and cousin, his sister and dad. all
these people saw brooke die. we got to take her in out room we bathed her dressed her and cuddled
her all night. the next day was really hard as we had to leave her but her face is in our hearts,
memorys and dreams. we asked wat she died or and it was organ failur one by one her organs were
shutting down where they were starved of oxygen.
thank u for taking ur time for reading this ur all great xxxxxxxxxxxxx
R.I.P BABY GIRL EVERY ONE LOVES U VERY MUCH.
well just got back from the hospital and it was their fault that brooke had died. from wat they told
us that brooke suffered bad brain damage as they failed to notice that there was something wrong. if
they had giving me a c section then brooke would of been a healthy baby and here with us today so
because of this we are sueing them even tho the money we will get it will never bring back our lil
angel xxx
God makes little children
He makes them every day
And though He loves them dearly
He gives them all away.
He gives each to an angel
And says take baby down
To such and such a mother
In such and such a town.
Or such and such a cottage
In such and such a place.
He gives the angel with it
A big soul full of grace.
God does so love those children
It's all that He can do
To let the Angel take them
But he loves the mother's too.
And so he says I'll lend you
This little one of mine
The angel folds it's love
About the special gift divine.
The angel watches over
The child both day and night
So glad to see that lovely soul
All shining in God's light
God makes so many children
And every now and then
He seems to want one specially
We don't know why or when
He whispers to its Angel
Bring the child back to me
The angel sees a lovely sight
That someday we may see
It sees the souls of mothers
And fathers in God's light
Offering him tiny children
Whose souls are shining bright
God does so love those children
Whos souls are never dim
And how he loves those parents
Who give them back to him.
~ Author unknown
soooo sorry!!
It doesnt matter how many times i read your story,i burst into tears each time! i am soooo sorry for your loss.. Brooke is such a beautiful liitle girl and my heart goes out to you all. i could never imagine what you are going through and the pain you must feel.. you are all in my prayers and no doubt Brooke is watching over her mummy and daddy every day.. all my love Clare xxxxxxx
my heart goes out to you all xx
my heart goes out to you all such a beautiful baby , my thoughts are with you all xxxxxxxxx
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Just a prayer for those who loved you,
Just a memory fond and true,
In their hearts you’ll live forever,
Because they thought the world of you
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Just dropping in to say Hi we are now back off holiday and will be lighting your angels candles again, even though we have not been on you have never left our thoughts love to you and your family always Denise x x x x x x x
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i miss ya so much, im findin it so hard to cum n see u bby :( ive let ya down soo much , now dat me n mummy split, i just cant stop thinkin bout being up there with u :( hopefully see you soon bby gurl xxx love you xxx
love u my lil angel
even tho me and ur daddy have spilt up we both still love u very much more than anything in the world just wish u was here now with me in my sad times
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So sorry for your loss
Iam so sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts are with you and your family. Sending you all are love and thinking of you all xxxxxxxxx
just to say know how ur feelin we lost kofi through hospital negligance and we.ve just won after 4 years of fightin . but it,s true it,s not about the money because i would give it back and more if i could have kofi in my arms again. Thinkin about u ,keep stong goodnite baby girl ,say hello to kofi for me xxx
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