| Location | Hastings |
| Age | 2 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 04/01/2008 |
| Date of Death | 06/01/2008 |
| Visitors | 4,029 since 30/03/2008 |
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The name of my gawjus daughter is Brooke Amilia Denman. She was born on the 4/1/2008 and died on the 6/1/2008. she was 1 day and 23 hours old. She passed away due to lack of blood and oxygen to the brain dueing labour. She was the best thing that had ever happened to me and im gald i got to see her and hold for for her finally goodbye.
It all started off thursday morning (3.1.08) at 10am wen i got up i started getting pains in my lower stomach like period cramps every 20 mins. as the day went on the pains started getting stronger and by 6pm they were starting to come every 5-7mins. as andes mum is a student midwife she was keepin a close eye on me which was a great help. By 1am (4.1.08) the contactions where coming every 5 mins and the pain was so bad i had to ring the hospital and they told me to come in straight away. When i got to the hospital they got me in the laubour ward in room 2. ande rang my best mate and my mum to come in and they were in the room with us for most of the time. i was given the gas and air striaght away which is a great thing i was so high off it at first lol by 4am i had the midwife check me and i was 4cm dilated and i was getting tired. after that i had the pathidine which really helped with the gas and air they work great together lol by 9am i was 7cm dilated. just before 12pm i had the erge to push so my midwife check and said that i was fully dilated but my waters hadnt broken so i got her to break them and a load of greenish water came out which ment that brooke had poo'ed inside me which ment she was stressed. for the next 2 hours i was pushing with all my might wen her head started crowning i let ande look as he was really excitied about meeting his little girl. and 50 mins later her head was out and with 1 final push she was out into the world. She was taken straight off me and had to have her airways cleaned and things, she wasnt moving and we started to get scared after about 10 doctors had rushed into the room to see her. after 40 mins of breathing for her they took her round into the special care unit i didnt even get to hold her. after 2 hours of resting i finally got up and dressed and was just about to get into the shower wen ande and his mum came in with a few doctors, by the look on andes face he wasnt happy. the doctors told us that brooke was very ill and needed extra care. so we decided to let her go to the medway hosptial in gillingham. we set off before brooke did and we waited for her in the waiting room. as soon as she had arrived we went in to see her. she was covered in tubes it was horrible seeing her like that. in the morning the doctors came in and told us straight that brooke was very ill and if she made it she would be brain damaged. over the day they gave her everything they could but nothing was working. that night they came back in a told us that brooke most proparly wasnt going to make it. in the morning me and ande went in to see her and her blood pressure was very low. our mums were on there way to see us and brooke wen at 2.30pm on the 6.1.08 brooke sadly died she just suddenly went white then the monitor started peeping... she was gone. wen we looked round, standing there was my mum, ands mum, my best mate sarah and tony and his auntie and cousin, his sister and dad. all these people saw brooke die. we got to take her in out room we bathed her dressed her and cuddled her all night. the next day was really hard as we had to leave her but her face is in our hearts, memorys and dreams. we asked wat she died or and it was organ failur one by one her organs were shutting down where they were starved of oxygen.
thank u for taking ur time for reading this ur all great xxxxxxxxxxxxx
R.I.P BABY GIRL EVERY ONE LOVES U VERY MUCH.
well just got back from the hospital and it was their fault that brooke had died. from wat they told us that brooke suffered bad brain damage as they failed to notice that there was something wrong. if they had giving me a c section then brooke would of been a healthy baby and here with us today so because of this we are sueing them even tho the money we will get it will never bring back our lil angel xxx
Brooke You Are The Brightest Star
Brooke you are the brightest star that shines at night, I know because i see you shining.
It was the biggest priviledge in my life, to have met you and be there with Mummy, Daddy, Nana Laura, Nana Jayne, Aunty Hannah, 2nd cousin Suzie and your 2 Godparents, when you took your last breath, to became a cherub.
Your very short life had such an impact on us all and still does, but we know you are in a safe place now.
Sweet Angel, until we all meet with you again, you keep watching and shining over you darling sister, and the ones that love and miss you.
You will always be a special angel to me and in my memory. Sweet angel sleep in peace. xxxxxxxxxxxx Great Aunt Jan xxxxxxxxx
Angel Brooke
Sweetest ,gorgeouse bravest litle girl.... You went through so much :( makes me wona cry so much you were so horribly robbed of such an amazing life your mummy had ready and waitign for you... Your loved dearly and no one has forgotten you nor will we ever forget you xxxxxxxxxxx
so sad :(
everytime i visit this site, i cry my eyes out. ive got a site made up for my granda that passed away 6 year ago. im so sorry for the loss of your daughter, shes gorgeous. its right when they say god only takes the best, they actually do. my thoughts are with you's. love Gemma xxxxxxxx.
To Brooke xx
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LITTLE ANGELS
When God calls little children
To dwell with Him above,
We mortals sometimes question
The wisdom of His love.
For no heartache compares
With the death of one small child
Who does so much to make our world
Seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling
The aged to His fold.
So He picks a rosebud
Before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them
And so He takes but few
To make the land of heaven
More beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult,
Still somehow we must try.
The saddest word that mankind knows
Will always be 'goodbye'.
So when a little child departs,
We who are left behind
Must realise God loves children
Angels are hard to find.
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Love Zoe xxx
A little angel
Hello Brooke sweetheart. What a little cutie you are, and now your a beautiful angel as you were to precious for thsi world all the other angels called you home. I hope your happy sweetheart, and having lots of fun.
Thinking of you darling. Be happy xxx Lots of love xxx
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Author: Mattie Brainard
..♥..Listen With Your Heart
Memories are like treasures
time cannot take away..♥..
..♥..So may we be surrounded
by happy ones today..♥..
..♥..May all the love and tenderness
of golden days and years well spent
Come back today to fill our hearts
with beauty and content..♥..
..♥..And may we walk down memory lane
and meet the ones we love,
For while we cannot see them,
they'll be watching from above....
So, for their sakes, be happy
and show them that their love
Has proven strong enough and big enough
to reach down from above..♥..
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A Birthday In Heaven by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xx
To a very special girl xx
Brooke,
I just sent your Mummy a message, now Im sending one to you. My daughter Caitlin is in Heaven for the same reason you are and its so not fair. Im sorry that it happened to you too. Such precious wanted little girls should not be hurt by the hospital when they are born. Mummy wanted you so badly, it was not her fault. She trusted the Doctors and Midwives because they should know what they are doing. You are a beautiful angel now, free to fly high up in the sky with Caitlin. Paint the sky pink, and catch them falling stars.
God Bless beautiful girl, sleep tight
Love and hugs
Zoe
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God makes little children
He makes them every day
And though He loves them dearly
He gives them all away.
He gives each to an angel
And says take baby down
To such and such a mother
In such and such a town.
Or such and such a cottage
In such and such a place.
He gives the angel with it
A big soul full of grace.
God does so love those children
It's all that He can do
To let the Angel take them
But he loves the mother's too.
And so he says I'll lend you
This little one of mine
The angel folds it's love
About the special gift divine.
The angel watches over
The child both day and night
So glad to see that lovely soul
All shining in God's light
God makes so many children
And every now and then
He seems to want one specially
We don't know why or when
He whispers to its Angel
Bring the child back to me
The angel sees a lovely sight
That someday we may see
It sees the souls of mothers
And fathers in God's light
Offering him tiny children
Whose souls are shining bright
God does so love those children
Whos souls are never dim
And how he loves those parents
Who give them back to him.
~ Author unknown
soooo sorry!!
It doesnt matter how many times i read your story,i burst into tears each time! i am soooo sorry for your loss.. Brooke is such a beautiful liitle girl and my heart goes out to you all. i could never imagine what you are going through and the pain you must feel.. you are all in my prayers and no doubt Brooke is watching over her mummy and daddy every day.. all my love Clare xxxxxxx
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